I’m Sorry!
Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony. Colossians 3:13-14
- Doubt
- Disunity
- Distrust
- Disharmony.
- Remember all the Lord has forgiven you. My list is long.
- Allow grace and mercy to rule. Usually, there is no conspiracy theory. If you are in a church pastoral position, there could be conspiracy, but most times people are not out to get you – they’re just dealing with their junk and you have happened in the path of their “dealing.”
- Stop being easily offended. There is much to do in this life, and we never know when our days are completed. (Psalm 139:16) Stay focused on the most important and do not allow the enemy to rob you of the Lord’s plan for your life. Run your race – not everyone else’s. (Hebrews 12:1-2)
- Own it – If you have wronged another person don’t dance around the issue – OWN IT! Stop making excuses. We all make mistakes. When we make them, own them. First, own them before the Lord and seek His forgiveness and secondly, own them with the other person involved. Speak! “I’m Sorry!” isn’t good enough. Try words like, “Please forgive me for ____________.” “I’m truly sorry that I ________.” It will be difficult, and you will have to humble yourself but most times when you seek this kind of reconciliation God honors it. (Proverbs 16:18; 18:12)
- Deal with it – Do not let any bitterness, resentment, anger, unforgiveness, malice, wrath, dishonor, disunity, distrust remain. (Hebrews 12:15) Forgiveness is the key to your healing and reconciliation. (Matthew 6:12-14)
- Leave it alone – There are times that the conflict is taken out of your hands. While you can ask for forgiveness and try to reconcile, the other individual simply will not allow it. Leave them to the Lord. Pray for them and live out forgiveness before them. (Romans 12:18)
- Cover it up with LOVE and PRAY you’re in a spiritual battle.